Relationship Counsellor John Gray's ”Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus“ is a classic reading in conflictual relationship between men and women.
There is no dispute who is right or wrong here. just address some points by illustrations, perhaps, for fun. Hope you enjoy the youtube link and the embedded video.
1. When the wife is diagnosed with stomach cancer (youtube):
2. What is female (embedded video)
Post notes:
Some praised the man's mother of video 1 for her wisdom. I don't totally agree and my observation is very simple: that is not wisdom. It's only the mother is a woman. Women are inherently relentless and scheming, and they won't reveal themselves until they need to. That's why there have been constant conflicts and arguments between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law since ancient times, because they both are women, and they understand their own mind. When the mother-in-law was the daughter-in-law, wasn't that how she calculated her man?
有看過連結的網友稱讚男主媽媽有智慧. 我不認同而且我的答案很簡單：那不是智慧. 只是因為男主媽媽是女人. 女人本就是厲害, 極具心機, 未到需要的時候不會暴露。 所以自古婆媳紛爭不斷, 因為大家都是女人，大家都明白各自的心機。婆婆當媳婦的時候, 不就是這樣拿捏她的男人嗎？
